I am Realtor, I also do Music Management and Massages. I am Ex-Military (Army). I have 2 Bachelor of Science Degrees from Devry Institute in Accounting and Computer Information Systems (CIS). I graduated Cuma-Laude. I am 41 years old. I am a Widow of 20 years. I strongly prefer to meet white men over 40 (nothing personal) just my preference. I have always been attracted to older men since I first started dating in Jr. High School and I always will. I am a Pisces. I love to travel, read, cook, debate and very open minded. I am optomistic not pessamistic so if you are the latter stay away from my profile. I am looking to meet penpals being that I don't believe that you can just meet someone online and fall in love just seeing a picture. I am perfectly secure in being single I don't see a problem with it. I just like meeting new friends especially someone who can hold my interest and that I can learn something from. In Short: I am Easy to Please but Hard to Satisfy: